I just had another person ask if I could help pay for school fees for their children. I know the solution is not to just give hand outs... as people would say, "it breeds a culture of dependancy." but, sometimes I also wonder, as it was recently mentioned to me, if that is just an excuse for not helping.
it feels awful not to help.
but it feels awful to just just give out money.
how? how do I help? what is the answer here?